Two really common
mistake that women make that turns men off is…
Mistake One
…becoming way too ‘heavy’ on dates and opening up waaaay too
much about the terrible situations that they’re surrounded by.
For instance, on dates, many women often spend half the time
talking about what a jerk their ex-boyfriend was, or moaning about how much bad
luck they’ve had lately, or gossiping negatively about their friends, or
talking about their negative situation at work.
Other examples include women who constantly complain to
their boyfriends or husbands about other people, and spend very little time
actually speaking positively.
I’m not saying you can never have a moan about someone else,
or that you should attempt to ‘sugarcoat’ a situation by pasting a smile over
an aching heart … but there is a time and a place (the first date is not it),
and there is a balance that is important here, and that men are very tuned-in
to.
Try thinking about it this way: if all that a guy knows of
you is that half the time he talks to you (which might be half of a first date,
or half of your relationship), you are complaining, then he defines you as ‘a
complainer.’
He doesn’t know how to put that aspect of your personality
into perspective – because his entire experience of you has been that you talk
a lot about negative things. And that tells him that you’re the kind of woman
who’s more interested in spending time and energy on complaining than you are
in forging a real live connection with the real live person you’re talking to.
It doesn’t make a lot of sense, from a male perspective, to
get involved with that kind of woman.
And something else … it also makes you seem like ‘high
maintenance’.
The second is
the “Silent Woman” That’s right, the woman
with too many secrets, won’t open up, and won’t talk about anything “Personal”
to her. This scares the pants off most
men, they may still go out with you, still sleep with you but they will never
commit to you as they are afraid of what may be hiding around the corner.
One key you need to focus on is being your best self, most
of the time. Part of being your best self is making sure you are looking at the
world through a balanced lens. There’s no need to be ‘ridiculously positive’,
but part of being successful with men and dating is putting your best foot forward,
and knowing that when you’re happy, you’re sexy.
I have so much information to share with you about what goes on inside a man’s mind, how he thinks, and how you can
not only be irresistible to men, but be incredibly inspiring to all others
around you.
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Live with passion
Mary
http://ecwise.girlring.hop.clickbank.net
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