TIP 3 Online Profile
Introduction
Men and
women are looking for different things from life and we really do speak
completely different languages. Men often put things in their profiles that
other men will think are really cool, shooting guns or holding up a dead animal
come to mind, but that most women don’t want to see that in an online profile.
The purpose
of your online dating profile is to catch the type of man you want to date and
to weed out the type of man you are not attracted to. Your profile itself is
very important but every single man online looks at your pictures first and
then reads the profile. So even if your profile is amazing, if your pictures
send the wrong message, Mr. Right will never read it. I want to share with you
the mistakes that you are probably making with your photos on your onlineprofile right now.
First of
all, if you don't have any pictures in your online profile most people will
simply ignore you. Nearly every online dating site from Plenty of Fish to Match
to OKCupid to eHarmony allows you to filter out any profiles without pictures.
I don’t know any men who bother looking at or responding to profiles that don’t
have pictures.
Men are visual creatures. They are visually stimulated and their attraction starts with the
first time they see a woman. Different men are attracted to different traits so we want to make sure that you can get access to the largest pool of men who
will actually be attracted to you when they meet you in person. If you have no
picture, some men will meet you but then it’s a gamble as to whether or not
they will be physically attracted to you. So why waste time meeting men that
aren’t a good fit?
Pictures with
Animals "NO"
Do you
really want a man’s first impression of you to be that you are a cat lady?
As you know
there are two big groups of people in this world. Those who love cats and those
who love dogs. And rarely do the two groups mix.
A picture of
a man with an animal shows that he is nurturing and has the right qualities to
be a father. That’s something that a lot of women are attracted to. Most men
are not looking for a woman whose biological clock is ticking so loudly that
they can hear it through their computer. A woman with a dog in her arms is a
woman desperate for companionship.
It might not
be a fair characterization; it’s simply how men’s minds work.
I had a long
talk about this last night with a woman I know who owns two dogs. Whenever a man sees a woman with a pet, the first thought is that she’s just filling the gap
until she starts having kids. Having worked with thousands of men I know that I
am not the exception.
If a man looking at your profile is a dog
person and they see a woman with a cat or even worse multiple cats in one of
her profile pictures it immediately decreases the odds that he will message her. Obvious right, so why reduce your chances?
There is
nothing wrong with having a pet. But posting a picture of your pet in your
online profile means it’s more important to you than your personality. Because
you are showing him the pet first.
Recently, I
have noticed that some women are taking this a step further and posting a
picture of their pet by itself. This is not a good idea. Men are looking at
your pictures for one reason, to decide if they think you are pretty enough for
them to read your profile. Putting a picture of a pet or your car or anything
else that isn’t you is basically wasting one of your picture spots.
Men see this
is wasting their time. They asked you the question, “What do you look like?”
and you replied with a picture of your dog. It comes off as either dishonest or
dumb. And you don’t want to send either of those messages.
Pets are
very rarely a deal breaker for people, so it’s better to wait and introduce
someone to your pet after you have a connection. There is no positive to be
gained from a picture with a pet in it. Only negatives.
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Until the next time
Mary
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